Women: I fail to understand
With special reference to the fifth novel of Mr. Chetan Bhagat ‘Revoltion
2020’
Every time I read any author
talks about the human social behaviours by applying younger’s curiosity of Love
Sex or Dhokha kind, I start thinking about ‘How a woman will react to it?’
Yesterday while reading Chetan’s book, where the possibility of reading Love,
Sex and Dhokha by remaining a socially respected public animal is maximum, I
become restless to know about a woman’s opinion about the character called
‘Aarti’. Mr. Bhagat tried his best negotiate with a sentiments of a women heart
while narrating because his larger readership base are women indeed but
somewhere I feel that the character ‘Aarti’ played a havoc in the life of Gopal
(or macroscopically to Varanasi or Nation uh!). I indeed not made a wise
comment or perhaps I am inclined towards my own experiences with women but
indeed I am not getting any point rationalise her stand towards engaging two
men at once for her will and dreams. I must congratulate Mr. Bhagat to
marvellously carving out an exemplary character of a women (not generalising
again) in R2020 but I should complain as well that he made me restless to munch
on women.
I come across many heart-broken
students as a professional personality development trainer. I should not say I
helped them heal through the agony of heart’s-hurt but I gave them a space
where they can exhaust their disappointments. I sometimes strongly feel that an
ideal configuration of personality training class should be classified on the
basis of gender so that I can effectively work upon the heart-broken elements
and make them refocus in their career making. My imagination goes well till I
think of preaching to the gentlemen of my class but I get succumbed when I
replace them with gentleladies. Handling a single woman, all alone, is like
being in war... let alone the idea of talking something like heart-break with a
group of women in a preaching congregation! I am scared. God will serve us a
heaven if we, as a man can able to understand these women but seems almighty is
too rude to demand this (can I seek evils help here uh!)
By Jitendra Verma 26th October 2011
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